FAQ
Guided sessions to divide assets, responsibilities, and parenting time peacefully.
How long does mediation take?
Most families reach full agreement in 2 – 4 two-hour sessions scheduled over 3–6 weeks. Complex financial or parenting issues can take a little longer, but mediation is still months faster and far less expensive than going to court.
Is our agreement legally binding?
Yes—once we draft your Memorandum of Understanding (MOU), each party is encouraged to obtain Independent Legal Advice (ILA). After both of you sign, it can be filed with the court (if desired) to become an enforceable Separation Agreement under Ontario law.
What if we can’t agree on everything?
Mediation is flexible:
• Any points you do settle are recorded and remain valid.
• Unresolved items can move to a brief follow-up session, arbitration, or, as a last resort, court.
• You keep control of the timeline and cost at every stage.
Do we need separate lawyers?
Lawyers are optional during the sessions but strongly recommended before signing the final agreement. Many clients use a “review counsel” for one or two hours, keeping costs low while ensuring their rights are protected.
Can sessions be in Arabic?
Absolutely. Amir conducts mediations in fluent Arabic or English, or a blend of both, to ensure every detail is clearly understood.
What if one of us is reluctant or refuses to mediate?
Mediation works best when both parties are willing, as it’s a voluntary process – no one can be forced to participate. If your spouse or co-parent is hesitant, we can begin with an informal one-on-one call to address their concerns and explain the benefits. Often, once people learn that mediation is faster, more affordable, and more private than going to court, they become more open to it. In Canada, courts also encourage parties to try mediation before
proceeding to trial. Ultimately, if one person absolutely refuses, mediation cannot move forward – but you will have shown your commitment to a cooperative solution. In such cases, you may need to seek legal advice or court proceedings as a last resort. Remember, even if mediation isn’t possible now, your partner may reconsider once they understand the alternatives.
How much does family mediation cost, and do you offer fixed packages?
We believe in transparent pricing. We offer flat-fee mediation packages with no hidden charges, so you’ll know the cost upfront. After a free 15- minute discovery call, we’ll recommend a package that fits your situation. The exact cost depends on how many sessions are required, but even a comprehensive package is typically far less than the expense of a drawn-out court case. Our goal is to keep mediation accessible and affordable, while maintaining the highest professional standards.
Is everything we discuss in mediation kept confidential?
Yes. Family mediation is a confidential process. Anything discussed during sessions stays private, and mediators will not disclose your discussions or agreements without permission. Even if you later go to court, what was said in mediation cannot be used as evidence (with rare exceptions such as risk of serious harm or disclosure of a crime). Confidentiality is essential – it allows both parties to speak freely, explore solutions, and build agreements without
fear.
Will the mediator give us legal advice or tell us what decisions to make?
No. The mediator’s role is to facilitate, not decide. A family mediator is a neutral third party who helps guide the conversation and ensures both sides are heard. Unlike a judge or arbitrator, the mediator does not impose terms or decide who is “right.” Mediators also cannot provide legal advice to either party, even if legally trained. Instead, they ensure you both understand the issues, explore options, and make informed decisions. If needed, you can each seek independent legal advice outside of mediation – for example, to review a draft agreement – but within sessions, all decisions are yours.
Do we have to be in the same room during mediation sessions?
Not at all. We offer flexible arrangements, including “shuttle mediation,” where each of you is in a separate room (or separate virtual meeting) while the mediator goes back and forth. This is helpful if direct interaction feels too difficult or emotionally charged. We also offer fully online sessions, so you can participate from different locations. Many clients find these options reduce stress and increase comfort. If you later prefer to meet in the same room, that’s
always possible. The process is tailored to your needs.
We were never married – can mediation still help with our separation or parenting issues?
Yes. Mediation is not limited to married couples. It is equally valuable for common-law partners, unmarried couples, or co-parents who are separating. We can help resolve issues such as property division, finances, housing, custody schedules, and child support. Whether or not you were legally married, mediation offers a safe, structured process to reach fair, practical, and child-focused solutions.
Will our children be involved or have a say in the mediation process?
Typically, children do not attend mediation sessions. However, their needs are always central to the process. If both parents agree and it is appropriate, we may offer Child-Inclusive Mediation, where an older child (around age 10+) may speak privately with a trained mediator or consultant. Children are never asked to take sides or make decisions – instead, their voices are heard in a safe way. Even when children aren’t directly involved, all parenting agreements are designed with their best interests in mind, including school routines, holidays, and cultural or religious needs.
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hold you back
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